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Warning: The following video contains leaked scientific data and information that holds the keys to getting you a text back, and pulling you out of the depths of simphood.

Our team of Ph.Ds and nobel prize researchers, compiled 500,000 opening messages on a dating site and discovered trends that decide whether you’ll be the next Hugh Hefner, or the next simp of the week.


The end of this video, you’ll have a proven scientific method for sending opening messages that guarantee a response from girls who look like this and this.

Viewer discretion is advised.

Hahah, sometimes I forget how badass my voice, is.

I’ve, really been underutilizing.

This thing.

But for real, I’m, not kidding today, I’m gonna be showing you legitimate data that researchers found after analyzing over 500,000 opening messages on the popular dating app OKCupid.


No don’t worry.

This video isn’t sponsored by OKCupid, in fact, I don’t even use their app because it’s garbage compared to apps like Hinge & Tinder.

But, that’s not the point, here’s.

What the data science tells us about opening lines and 4 rules for what you should and shouldn’t say when matching with cute babes.

Rule #1:, Be literate, don’t speak in weird slang or bad grammar, it’s a major turn, off.

This one’s kinda obvious.

So we’ll go through it fast, but it’s important to understand why sending messages with poor grammar is a big no-no.

Words like, “ur, u, wat,” all had reply rates below the average of 32%.

Some of these words had a reply rate of less than 10% that’s how much of a dealbreaker grammar can be.

Why? Well, because it’s low value.

Think about James Bond, Bruce Wayne… as high value as a guy can get, right? Do, you think they’d be saying shit like “hi bb.

Can I see ur bewbz”.

Hell no! They have their shit together, and a guy with his shit together.

Doesn’t speak like a kindergartener.

It makes you seem uneducated, and if you’re, uneducated, she’s, gonna immediately assume you’re low value and don’t have anything going for you.

Simply using correct grammar immediately puts you a few points above the average reply rate of 32% Rule #2: Avoid physical, compliments like the plague, and these days you guys know what it’s like to avoid a plague.

In their analysis.

The data found that words like “hot, beautiful, sexy and you’re pretty” plummet.

Your reply, rates.

In fact, just using the word “sexy” in a message at all, would get you a reply rate below 20%..

yikes., Meanwhile, non-physical, compliments work way better and get you a much higher reply.


This matches up totally with my experience as well.

In fact, most of my opening lines these days are compliments about what a girl is doing in her photos are what she mentions in her bio.

A, good rule of thumb, I, follow: Compliment, something she’s doing in the photos, such as her actions or behavior, NOT, her looks! Now let’s.

Think about why physical compliments are so bad.


If you’re complimenting a girl on her looks, chances are you’re not that attractive yourself, hence why your first instinct would be to call out her looks.


It makes the conversation feel transactional.

It makes you appear like you’re.

Only interested in her looks and have an agenda of trying to just hook up with her.


A lot of girls tend to enjoy the emotional aspects of relationships, and less so.

The physical.

Rule #3: Use an Unusual Greeting Now.

This one surprised the hell outta your boy Zeus, and as an immortal God who’s, been around a while, it’s hard to surprise me.

These days.

Opening, with “hi, hey, and hello” all ended up hurting reply rates by quite a bit.


The word “hi” actually got you a 10% reduction from the average reply rate of 32%.

Holy Zeus.

Saying stuff, like “what’s up, how’s, it going, yo, and hola beefed up reply rates pretty dramatically above average.


The reason standard greetings like hey, hi, and hello probably have such low reply rates is that they don’t trigger any emotion or desire to have a conversation.

What else.

Is she supposed to say other than ‘hi’? You’re, better off skipping the greetings entirely and just starting the conversation head? First with a comment on her profile or pictures like in the examples I gave.


The data backs this up too, showing a big boost in messages involving something about their profile.

And I’m, not just saying that.

Rule #4 says that bringing up specific interests can be a god-send for your reply.


Take, a look here, mentioning specific interests, made a significant increase in reply rates, and it makes a lot of sense.

Why., You’re way more hooked and interested in replying to a message if it has something to do with your interests, which is why I recommend skipping the intro and just getting right to the good stuff when you open.

Now, a few things to keep in mind about the research.

Is that it’s quite a few years, old, back when dating apps were newer and there were way less people on them.


Imagine reply rates are even lower nowadays since there’s, so much more competition and people are using the apps more, making them more picky.

Either way.

That just makes these tips a lot more valuable, since the stakes are higher than ever on, dating apps.


Let me let you in on a little known: secret.

What, you say is less important than WHO is saying: it.

If, Leonardo Dicaprio makes a dating profile and sends a girl, a message, she’s gonna respond immediately.


He could send her an empty message, or just a period, and she’ll respond.

I mean c’mon it’s common sense., If you’re, a celebrity or influencer badass, girls are gonna at LEAST, be interested enough to respond back, no matter what you say., I call this, “The, Influencer Effect”.


What if you could have this same effect on women without needing to be rich or famous? Well? Let me tell you: bro, you can.

It all comes down to using a secret 4 word formula, originally used by the FBI for getting information from enemy, spies… yeah, intense I, know.


If it worked on Russian spies, I’m willing to bet it can get you a date or at least a reply, back.

But here’s the best part, once you master.

How to put this formula into action, you’ll be amazed at how easily girls will flock to you.

And the best part? If.

You use this formula on Instagram.

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Better than Tinder, Hinge, or anything else.

You’ll be able to create this influencer effect with every girl who comes across your Instagram profile, and bypass girls’ “online shields”.

You’ll have girls replying to your stories, asking you to hangout, and gushing over you the same way they do their favorite influencers.

And lucky for you, my disciple, Benjamin and I just put together a free documentary style video, where we give away the secret formula breaking down EXACTLY how to do this.

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What to text a girl to make her reply back? ›

If you want a girl to text you back, give her a reason to. Asking a question about something you know she likes shows her you care, and you'll increase your odds of her texting back by a lot.

How do you make a girl respond to your text quickly? ›

  1. Make it short and sweet but never too short. Say something that interests her. Then leave it at that. ...
  2. Be patient. If she has mentioned she'll be away, she means it. ...
  3. Don't “act” busy. If she responds, don't ever say you've got to go, bye, or try to hook her like that; don't pretend anything, ever.

What to text a girl if she is ignoring you? ›

If you text a girl regularly and this is the first time that they've missed or ignored your text, you can text, "Hey! I haven't heard from you in a while. I hope you're well." You can also ask over text, "Hey! I've been thinking about you.

How to impress a girl by texting? ›

Be Sweet To Her

If you want to impress her over text, then stay away from any feelings like being jealous, obsessive or insecure. You can send her cute good morning messages to brighten her day or if she is having important work then wish her good luck. At night, if you are thinking about her then let her know.

Does a girl like you if she doesn't text you? ›

If someone doesn't text back in your text conversation or avoids meeting up in real life, she just might not be interested anymore. It may seem like a big deal initially that she isn't responding, but with time, you may start thinking about her less and someone else who puts in effort with you more.

What to do when your crush doesn t reply? ›

Communicate Elsewhere. It may just be that your crush isn't comfortable texting - some people prefer to talk over the phone or in person. If you've made no effort to speak to your crush other than sending texts, it may be time to work up the courage to have a conversation with them in person.

How to make her want you? ›

Honesty and affection are what women look for in relationships. Make sure she sees you often, and when she does, you should be presentable and confident. Ensure you speak well, try to know more about her, indulge in exciting activities with her, and flirt using genuine compliments to make a way to her heart.

How to make a girl blush over text? ›

Make her blush by flattering her a little.

Think about what makes her special to you, and tell her what you appreciate about her energy, personality, or her mind. “I really love the way you think. Please tell me you write all these incredible ideas down.” “You have this gift of making other people feel really happy.

What to reply when a girl is not replying? ›

"Hey, is everything alright?"
  • “Hey, I don't mean to pry. Just checking in. Is everything okay?”
  • “Hey there. No worries on responding—I just wanted to make sure you were okay.”
  • “Hi! No pressure… I just wanted to make sure everything was okay with you.

What to do if a girl gives you short replies? ›

Making Conversation With Someone Who Is Only Giving You Short Answers
  1. First, accept the conversation may just not work out. ...
  2. Try asking more open-ended questions. ...
  3. Ask for more details about their short answer. ...
  4. Give them more time to come up with a response. ...
  5. Try changing the subject.

What to say when a girl replies late? ›

You could flip it on her if you think she's playing games.

You might say: “Oh, sorry, I was busy too haha.” “Sorry for the late reply on my end too. I'm just so forgetful!”

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