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Content
Warning: The following video contains leaked scientific data and information that holds the keys to getting you a text back, and pulling you out of the depths of simphood.
Our team of Ph.Ds and nobel prize researchers, compiled 500,000 opening messages on a dating site and discovered trends that decide whether youâll be the next Hugh Hefner, or the next simp of the week.
By.
The end of this video, youâll have a proven scientific method for sending opening messages that guarantee a response from girls who look like this and this.
Viewer discretion is advised.
Hahah, sometimes I forget how badass my voice, is.
Iâve, really been underutilizing.
This thing.
But for real, Iâm, not kidding today, Iâm gonna be showing you legitimate data that researchers found after analyzing over 500,000 opening messages on the popular dating app OKCupid.
And.
No donât worry.
This video isnât sponsored by OKCupid, in fact, I donât even use their app because itâs garbage compared to apps like Hinge & Tinder.
But, thatâs not the point, hereâs.
What the data science tells us about opening lines and 4 rules for what you should and shouldnât say when matching with cute babes.
Rule #1:, Be literate, donât speak in weird slang or bad grammar, itâs a major turn, off.
This oneâs kinda obvious.
So weâll go through it fast, but itâs important to understand why sending messages with poor grammar is a big no-no.
Words like, âur, u, wat,â all had reply rates below the average of 32%.
Some of these words had a reply rate of less than 10% thatâs how much of a dealbreaker grammar can be.
Why? Well, because itâs low value.
Think about James Bond, Bruce Wayne⊠as high value as a guy can get, right? Do, you think theyâd be saying shit like âhi bb.
Can I see ur bewbzâ.
Hell no! They have their shit together, and a guy with his shit together.
Doesnât speak like a kindergartener.
It makes you seem uneducated, and if youâre, uneducated, sheâs, gonna immediately assume youâre low value and donât have anything going for you.
Simply using correct grammar immediately puts you a few points above the average reply rate of 32% Rule #2: Avoid physical, compliments like the plague, and these days you guys know what itâs like to avoid a plague.
In their analysis.
The data found that words like âhot, beautiful, sexy and youâre prettyâ plummet.
Your reply, rates.
In fact, just using the word âsexyâ in a message at all, would get you a reply rate below 20%..
yikes., Meanwhile, non-physical, compliments work way better and get you a much higher reply.
Rate.
This matches up totally with my experience as well.
In fact, most of my opening lines these days are compliments about what a girl is doing in her photos are what she mentions in her bio.
A, good rule of thumb, I, follow: Compliment, something sheâs doing in the photos, such as her actions or behavior, NOT, her looks! Now letâs.
Think about why physical compliments are so bad.
1).
If youâre complimenting a girl on her looks, chances are youâre not that attractive yourself, hence why your first instinct would be to call out her looks.
2).
It makes the conversation feel transactional.
It makes you appear like youâre.
Only interested in her looks and have an agenda of trying to just hook up with her.
Remember:.
A lot of girls tend to enjoy the emotional aspects of relationships, and less so.
The physical.
Rule #3: Use an Unusual Greeting Now.
This one surprised the hell outta your boy Zeus, and as an immortal God whoâs, been around a while, itâs hard to surprise me.
These days.
Opening, with âhi, hey, and helloâ all ended up hurting reply rates by quite a bit.
Saying.
The word âhiâ actually got you a 10% reduction from the average reply rate of 32%.
Holy Zeus.
Saying stuff, like âwhatâs up, howâs, it going, yo, and hola beefed up reply rates pretty dramatically above average.
Now.
The reason standard greetings like hey, hi, and hello probably have such low reply rates is that they donât trigger any emotion or desire to have a conversation.
What else.
Is she supposed to say other than âhiâ? Youâre, better off skipping the greetings entirely and just starting the conversation head? First with a comment on her profile or pictures like in the examples I gave.
Before.
The data backs this up too, showing a big boost in messages involving something about their profile.
And Iâm, not just saying that.
Rule #4 says that bringing up specific interests can be a god-send for your reply.
Rate.
Take, a look here, mentioning specific interests, made a significant increase in reply rates, and it makes a lot of sense.
Why., Youâre way more hooked and interested in replying to a message if it has something to do with your interests, which is why I recommend skipping the intro and just getting right to the good stuff when you open.
Now, a few things to keep in mind about the research.
Is that itâs quite a few years, old, back when dating apps were newer and there were way less people on them.
I.
Imagine reply rates are even lower nowadays since thereâs, so much more competition and people are using the apps more, making them more picky.
Either way.
That just makes these tips a lot more valuable, since the stakes are higher than ever on, dating apps.
But.
Let me let you in on a little known: secret.
What, you say is less important than WHO is saying: it.
If, Leonardo Dicaprio makes a dating profile and sends a girl, a message, sheâs gonna respond immediately.
Hell.
He could send her an empty message, or just a period, and sheâll respond.
I mean câmon itâs common sense., If youâre, a celebrity or influencer badass, girls are gonna at LEAST, be interested enough to respond back, no matter what you say., I call this, âThe, Influencer Effectâ.
But.
What if you could have this same effect on women without needing to be rich or famous? Well? Let me tell you: bro, you can.
It all comes down to using a secret 4 word formula, originally used by the FBI for getting information from enemy, spies⊠yeah, intense I, know.
So.
If it worked on Russian spies, Iâm willing to bet it can get you a date or at least a reply, back.
But hereâs the best part, once you master.
How to put this formula into action, youâll be amazed at how easily girls will flock to you.
And the best part? If.
You use this formula on Instagram.
It will turn your IG profile into the BEST dating app in the world.
Better than Tinder, Hinge, or anything else.
Youâll be able to create this influencer effect with every girl who comes across your Instagram profile, and bypass girlsâ âonline shieldsâ.
Youâll have girls replying to your stories, asking you to hangout, and gushing over you the same way they do their favorite influencers.
And lucky for you, my disciple, Benjamin and I just put together a free documentary style video, where we give away the secret formula breaking down EXACTLY how to do this.
By, the end, youâll learn exactly how to date.
Girls who look like this, all with the ease of your instagram profile., So click.
The link below and put your email in to check out the free, docu-style video.
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You, guys know Iâve been working on this for months.
Now.
Benjamin and I spent ALL of quarantine, making this brand new course, showing you our copy/paste system on how to âpimpâ your profile and turn you, from âaverageâ to influencerâ in just a few weeks.
Hereâs just a sneak peek of what youâll get.
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And.
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On Instagram.
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Iâll see ya over there.
Man!.
FAQs
What to text a girl to make her reply back? âș
If you want a girl to text you back, give her a reason to. Asking a question about something you know she likes shows her you care, and you'll increase your odds of her texting back by a lot.
How do you make a girl respond to your text quickly? âș- Make it short and sweet but never too short. Say something that interests her. Then leave it at that. ...
- Be patient. If she has mentioned she'll be away, she means it. ...
- Don't âactâ busy. If she responds, don't ever say you've got to go, bye, or try to hook her like that; don't pretend anything, ever.
If you text a girl regularly and this is the first time that they've missed or ignored your text, you can text, "Hey! I haven't heard from you in a while. I hope you're well." You can also ask over text, "Hey! I've been thinking about you.
How to impress a girl by texting? âșBe Sweet To Her
If you want to impress her over text, then stay away from any feelings like being jealous, obsessive or insecure. You can send her cute good morning messages to brighten her day or if she is having important work then wish her good luck. At night, if you are thinking about her then let her know.
If someone doesn't text back in your text conversation or avoids meeting up in real life, she just might not be interested anymore. It may seem like a big deal initially that she isn't responding, but with time, you may start thinking about her less and someone else who puts in effort with you more.
What to do when your crush doesn t reply? âșCommunicate Elsewhere. It may just be that your crush isn't comfortable texting - some people prefer to talk over the phone or in person. If you've made no effort to speak to your crush other than sending texts, it may be time to work up the courage to have a conversation with them in person.
How to make her want you? âșHonesty and affection are what women look for in relationships. Make sure she sees you often, and when she does, you should be presentable and confident. Ensure you speak well, try to know more about her, indulge in exciting activities with her, and flirt using genuine compliments to make a way to her heart.
How to make a girl blush over text? âșMake her blush by flattering her a little.
Think about what makes her special to you, and tell her what you appreciate about her energy, personality, or her mind. âI really love the way you think. Please tell me you write all these incredible ideas down.â âYou have this gift of making other people feel really happy.
- âHey, I don't mean to pry. Just checking in. Is everything okay?â
- âHey there. No worries on respondingâI just wanted to make sure you were okay.â
- âHi! No pressure⊠I just wanted to make sure everything was okay with you.
- First, accept the conversation may just not work out. ...
- Try asking more open-ended questions. ...
- Ask for more details about their short answer. ...
- Give them more time to come up with a response. ...
- Try changing the subject.
What to say when a girl replies late? âș
You could flip it on her if you think she's playing games.
You might say: âOh, sorry, I was busy too haha.â âSorry for the late reply on my end too. I'm just so forgetful!â